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Understanding Infidelity Part One: Types of Infidelity
Infidelity, or cheating, is essentially a breach of trust, or a violation of established relationship boundaries. It happens when one person within a relationship carries on a relationship–whether emotional, sexual or romantic–secretly outside of the established boundaries of their relationship, without their existing partner’s knowledge or consent.
And there’s more than one type of infidelity. Read more to learn about 5 common types.
Check out G&STC Therapist Alexa Perez speaking with Gabrielle Kassel at Cosmopolitan about Why Your Healthy Relationship Might Make You Sleepy.
Check out G&STC Therapist Alexa Perez speaking with Gabrielle Kassel at Cosmopolitan about why your healthy relationship might make you sleepy.
Ask a Queer Therapist: My Girlfriend Ended Our Relationship Because She Wants a “Traditional Family.” How Do I Cope?
How do you cope when your partner ends your relationship to pursue a “traditional family?” Read what our therapist has to say, in this edition of Ask a Queer Therapist.
Is My Relationship Over? 6 Things to Consider
There isn’t always one clear sign that a relationship is over. Is this a rough patch that can be worked through? Or is this a new normal and it’s time to make peace with the truth that we’re no longer compatible and walk away?
Here are 6 common indicators that can help you decide whether or not a rough patch can be worked through.
Check out G&STC Director Jesse Kahn speaking with Gabrielle Kassel at Men’s Journal about Symbiosexuality, What it is, and How it Differs from Polyamory, Swinging, and ENM.
Check out G&STC Director Jesse Kahn speaking with Gabrielle Kassel at Men’s Journal about Symbiosexuality, What it is, and How it Differs from Polyamory, Swinging, and ENM.
Ask a Queer Therapist: Am I a Top or Bottom?
Grappling with masculinity and questions regarding whether you’re a top or bottom? Read what our therapist has to say, in this edition of Ask a Queer Therapist.
Spontaneous & Respsonsive Desire: Understanding Different Experiences of Arousal Part 2
We’ve explored the idea of understanding different experiences of arousal on our blog before, a topic we’ll be re-visiting today through the lens of spontaneous and responsive desire. While often framed as opposites, spontaneous and responsive desire are simply two different ways of experiencing desire–not necessarily at odds, but often pitted against one another when we don’t have the language or understanding for what we’re experiencing or how we’re experiencing it.
Check out G&STC Therapist Cindy Ramos speaking with Gabrielle Kassel at Oprah Daily about How Your Bedroom Can Impact Your Intimacy.
Check out G&STC Therapist Cindy Ramos speaking with Gabrielle Kassel at Oprah Daily about how your bedroom can impact your intimacy.
Check out G&STC’s Director Jesse Kahn talking with Gabrielle Kassel at Women’s Health about The Best Lesbian & Queer Sex Positions to Try
Check out G&STC’s Director Jesse Kahn talking with Gabrielle Kassel at Women’s Health about The Best Lesbian & Queer Sex Positions to Try
Pride 2026–“For All of Us”
While some Pride celebrations remain scaled down this year because corporate sponsors continue to worship at the altar of cowardice, even deep in the throes of the onslaught of attacks against us, the spirit and energy of Pride remains unshakeable.
Alexithymia: What is It And How Can You Manage It?
Sometimes called “emotional blindness,” alexithymia is a condition where someone has a difficulty connecting the thread between experiences, feelings and words. It’s a personality feature, or a pattern in how someone processes (or rather, doesn’t) emotional information.
Ask a Queer Therapist: Is Everyone a Little Bit Queer?
Is everyone a little bit queer, or can people really be “just straight?” Read what our therapist has to say, in this edition of Ask a Queer Therapist.
Check out G&STC’s Director Jesse Kahn talking with Gabrielle Kassel at GQ about How to Live with Ulcerative Colitis and Still Have a Sex Life
Check out G&STC’s director Jesse Kahn speaking with Gabrielle Kassel at GQ about how those with inflammatory bowel diseases like UC can practice anal sex safely.
Internalized Transphobia: What Is It, Where Does it Come From, and What Can You Do About It?
Internalized transphobia is the process a trans person goes through where harmful, even discriminatory anti-trans ideas and stigma from the culture at large are absorbed (or internalized) into their own beliefs. So what can be done about it?
Ask a Queer Therapist: I Think I Rushed Into My Engagement
What do you do when you realize you’ve rushed into an engagement that might not be right for you? Read what our therapist has to say, in our bonus edition of Ask a Queer Therapist.
Ask a Queer Therapist: I Want to Clear the Air. My Friends Say Leave it Alone. What Should I Do?
What do you do when you want to reach out and clear the air with someone, but all your friends think it’s a bad idea? Read what our therapist has to say, in our newest edition of Ask a Queer Therapist.
5 G&STC Dating Resources to Help You Put Yourself Back Out There
As the weather starts to warm up, we’re all starting to thaw and shake off the feeling of being trapped inside all winter, many folks are starting to think about putting themselves back out on the dating scene. But it can feel intimidating after a long winter hibernation! And dating brings up a lot of vulnerabilities and insecurities, so it’s natural to need some support.
We’ve gathered a few resources from our blog to help address common concerns that come up when dating again!
Check out G&STC’s Director Jesse Kahn talking with Gabrielle Kassel at HealthCentral about dating while taking GLP-1s.
Check out G&STC’s director Jesse Kahn speaking with Gabrielle Kassel at HealthCentral about dating while taking GLP-1s.