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10 Tips for Emotional Regulation
Practicing emotional regulation can help you communicate better, manage stress, and allow you time to think through what you want to do. Emotional regulation is an essential skill for maintaining mental health and well-being. Here are 10 tips to help you manage your feelings effectively.
Having Sex From A Place Of Obligation: Understanding the Underlying Dynamics and Finding Genuine Intimacy
How can you tell if you’re having sex from a place of obligation? To what extent do differing libidos contribute to this dynamic? And is it always a bad thing to have sex because it will make your partner feel good?
Unpacking Late-Diagnosed Autism Part Two
High functioning and low functioning are terms that are commonly used within the mental health care industry. We think it's helpful to have a general knowledge of what "high functioning" or "low functioning" are used in case you encounter them, which is why we've included the following section. However, at G&STC, we find the negative connotations that go along with the terms to do more harm than help in conversations with clients, so we opt not to use them in our care.
Check out Director Jesse Kahn Talking With Shondaland About How to Apologize.
Check out Director Jesse Kahn talking with Jay Deitcher at Shondaland about what makes a good apology.
Unpacking Late-Diagnosed Autism Part One
With the increase in public and professional awareness surrounding autism–and the changing of diagnostic criteria for who is considered to have autism–many people have experienced a misdiagnosis or late diagnosis.
Ethical Non-Monogamy: Making a Consensual Agreement
When beginning a journey with ethical non-monogamy, it can be an intimidating process to initiate. Where do you start? What boundaries do you need to have? How do you navigate jealousy? How much do you want to know about your partner's involvements?
I Am Sorry For What I did When I Was In Pain
We often hear about self growth as a beautiful, peaceful, and romantic journey. And while it can be all of those things at times, what gets lost in the conversation is the shadow side to self-growth. In many ways, self growth is a grieving process, and a very intense one at times.
Queerness and Challenging the Family Role
Whether biological, chosen, ancestral, or otherwise, our experience of family becomes foundational to how we relate to others and even ourselves.
How Do I Bring It Up? Tips for Initiating Difficult Conversations
Having difficult discussions is a big part of maintaining our close relationships, but it can be something that feels very intimidating–especially since we’re not often taught good communication skills from the get go. But with intention and practice, starting and having important conversations when they’re needed will get easier and help you to rewrite the scripts you have about conflict and conversation right now.
Check out Director Jesse Kahn Talking With HuffPost About Common Behaviors that Could be Tanking Your Sex Life.
Check out G&STC’s Director Jesse Kahn talking with Kelsey Borresen at HuffPost about common behaviors that could be standing between you and the sex life you desire.
Communicating your needs in a Long-Term Relationship
By taking the time to understand and listen to ourselves, and to understand what we need from the relationship, we can create a stronger and more fulfilling connection with the person.So, how do you begin to listen to yourself and your body in a long-term relationship?
6 Questions to Ask Yourself About Your Social Media Use
Apps are made to keep us consuming, so it’s easy to get sucked in and lost in the algorithm. That is why it is important to check in with yourself to make sure your social media use feels good to you. Here are six questions you can ask yourself when assessing your relationship with social media.
Navigating Non-Monogamy When Conflicting Desires Arise
With intentional effort, conflicting desires within non-monogamous relationships can be navigated. Here are our tips on how to navigate non-monogamy when desires and interests are different.
In Memoriam: Former G&STC Therapist Brett Wagner
We are deeply saddened to learn of the passing of former G&STC therapist Brett Wagner.
Check out Director Jesse Kahn talking Good Housekeeping About the Best Sex Toys for Couples to Spice Things Up in the Bedroom.
There are a lot of reasons that people in a relationship may want to try sex toys together! Check out Director Jesse Kahn talking with Luisa Colón at Good Housekeeping about using toys to spice up your partnered sex life.
Communication Power Hour
A power hour is a designated time for you and another person (or group of people) to get together and check in with one another. Inspired by more traditional relationship check-in exercises, the power hour is also meant to extend to roommates, friendships, and other types of interpersonal relationships you have in your life.
Check out G&STC’s Therapist Jae Majors Talking With Healthline About Living With an HIV Positive Family Member
Check out G&STC Therapist Jae Majors talking with Gabrielle Kassel at Healthline about living with an HIV positive family member.
Trans Survival Mode
For those of us struggling to combat the thoughts and feelings of survival mode, we must also ask the question: is there more to life than this? It is one thing to survive, but to thrive, is an entirely different story. Choosing to engage in your survival mode can be an act of reestablishing your natural equilibrium and an act of coming home to yourself. Here are some ways to get started.