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Check out Director Jesse Kahn Talking With HuffPost About Masturbating Without Porn
Check out Director Jesse Kahn talking with Brittany Wong at HuffPost UK about the power of fantasies while masturbating.
Good Sex Is Learned: The Cultural Myth of Innate Sex Skills
The cultural myth of innate sex skills is limiting and discourages people from seeking new knowledge and pleasure–and ironically doesn’t give us the opportunity to have the best (or most pleasurable) sex we can have. But, as adults, we can empower ourselves to learn new information about sex, ourselves, and our partners.
G&STC Director Talks with Brittany Wong at HuffPost about Celebrating 'Chosen Moms' on Mother’s Day
G&STC Director Talks with Brittany Wong at HuffPost about Celebrating 'Chosen Moms' on Mother’s Day.
G&STC Director Talks with Gabrielle Kassel About Why Teenagers Having Sex isn’t Inherently Bad or Harmful
Check out G&STC’s Director Jesse Kahn talking with Gabrielle Kassel at Healthline about why it’s not always bad or harmful for teens to be sexually active.
G&STC Director Jesse Kahn Talks with Kelsey Borresen at HuffPost About Phrases Couples Therapists Never (Or Rarely) Say To Their Partners
Check out G&STC’s Director Jesse Kahn talking with Kelsey Borresen at HuffPost about phrases they try to avoid in their own relationships.
“Failed” Woman: The Unattainable Gender Ideal
Anyone who has once considered themself to be a woman or is currently a woman could tell you that everyone seems to have a specific idea of who or what a woman is and should be. However, in reality, in as many ways as there are different ideals of what a woman should be, there are also a million and a half ways we’re told we “fail” at being a woman.
G&STC Director Jesse Kahn Talks with Kelsey Borresen at HuffPost About Sex Questions You Probably Haven't Asked Your Partner
Check out G&STC’s Director Jesse Kahn talking with Kelsey Borresen at HuffPost about some sex questions you probably haven't asked your partner, but should.
Springtime Growth & Transformation
Springtime invites us to have patience with ourselves during these challenging moments, and shows us that just as flowers will bloom after an unexpected cold front or night of frost, we too can blossom after unexpected obstacles and challenges.
Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn
If you’ve experienced complex trauma, it’s common to gravitate toward one or two of the survival strategies in your overall behavior and while forming your worldview. These strategies were likely developed in order to navigate and survive the lack of love, abuse, neglect, and other childhood pain that you did not have control over.
Exploring Solo Kink
There are many ways to explore kink on your own, they can include masturbation but don’t always. Ask yourself how you want to feel and what you want to experience before starting any new form of kink play.
Tips for Healing from Queer Impostor Syndrome
While there are infinite ways to be queer, and we hope that our queer communities would be places to celebrate all of those identities, in reality it’s not always so. Straight trans people or bisexual people with partners of other genders, or nonbinary people who aren’t quite sure how they relate to other queer identities, among others may all be vulnerable to experiencing this queer imposter syndrome. So what can we do about it?
Starting Your Therapeutic Journey as a Queer Person
From beginning to search for a therapist to beginning your work with a therapist, below are some tips from someone on the other side of the therapeutic relationship on finding a therapist you love and ensuring sessions prioritize your needs and growth.
When You’re Angry at Your Parents: Processing your Childhood Experiences While Having a Relationship With Your Caregivers
Maybe you did not have the emotional availability that you wish you had from them even though you haven’t questioned it much before. What if they inflicted trauma that they are not aware of?
How Do I make Queer Community?
For many of us across the Queer community, the act of finding community isn’t always that easy. Unlike some other marginalized communities, Queer people are not often born into community; instead, it is something we must seek out. So where do we start?
Is it Time to Explore Non-Monogamy?
What do you do when you have identified as a monogamous person your whole life and then that begins to come into question?
What are Queerplatonic Partnerships?
Queerplatonic partnerships (QPPs) are non-romantic intimate partnerships between two or more people. Who says the most significant love of your life has to be romantic? Queering relationships means thinking critically about where your ideas of what relationships “should” look like according to societal standards, and creating a structure that works for you.